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Acceptance might be messier than you think
When people talk about acceptance, it's sometimes described as though it's a simple destination. We imagine a person arriving at a place of peace where they have fully "come to terms" with a difficult reality. In practice, however, acceptance is rarely that clean. More often, it's a messy and evolving process that involves balancing different thoughts, feelings, attitudes, and perspectives toward the same experience. Consider someone grieving the end of a relationship. Part o
Nick Kenny
Jun 12 min read
Emotions, and working with them in Emotion-Focused Therapy
Emotions are adaptive signals that help us survive and connect. Understanding them is the biggest piece of the puzzle in understanding the meaning of our experiences. They organize attention, prepare the body for action, and communicate important information about needs, values, relationships, and safety. From an evolutionary lens, emotions developed alongside a demand for quick responses to survive challenges and recognize opportunities. For instance, fear prepares the body

Nick
May 292 min read
A little of what you can expect from me
Ultimately, I’m interested in helping people move toward a more balanced self, one that isn’t defined solely by past experiences, old patterns, and automatic reactions. Instead, one that's flexible, grounded, and able to navigate towards ideal decisions with value-driven intentions. I work with people stuck in patterns that, at various times, they are painfully aware of, starting to notice, or are "kept out" of their awareness. There is always more to learn about ourselves, a

Nick
May 262 min read
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